your only going to get one shot at life, so why waste it on something that get’s you down? life is for living, not for dwelling around being sad over ‘some lad’ (because that’s 9 times out of 10 going to be the reason you are sad) because trust me you can tell yourself how nice he is and all that, but will that ever change what happened in the past? no. You can’t change the past so don’t dwell on it, I say ‘when the past gets you down, don’t hang around waiting. Go searching for a bigger and better future!’